Moving to the couch

Moving to the couch

My mother is on the couch. At this point, she does move from the couch. There was a time, until a few months ago, when she was still up and about, walking and driving, running errands. After that there was a period when she spent most of her time in her chair, the one next to the couch, occasionally doing things, going out, whatnot. Finally she moved to the couch…”

—Dave Eggers, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius

And, with those lines I was hooked. For a 20-year-old who’d just lost his mother to cancer and watch her do just that, those lines rang truer than anything I’d ever read and have read since. I was unbelievably jealous of his ability to write and express what I was feeling. It’s still my favorite book because of it.

This photo is part of Descriptio and to me it represents both sunsets, the fading out of life (since this polaroid soon will be very, very faded), but also the fun of life with the people mingling and all the good stuff as well. It’s not meant to be sad, or depressing, just to remind me that we’re only here for a such a short while, and, yes to savor every goddamn sunset.

March 11th, 2009

aheartbreakingworkofstaggeringgenius, daveeggers, descriptio, gasworks, mom, polaroid, sunset, sx70

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Comments

01 March 11th, 2009

hurtingbombz

beautifully simple. great eggers extract.

02 March 11th, 2009

twatson

@hurtingbombz Thanks.

03 March 11th, 2009

LaurenGrant

I admire this photograph for what it represents to you, as well as the fact that this illustrates in a very tangibly visible way how very physically small we are.

04 March 11th, 2009

shades of mediocrity

i love dave eggers, i love this photo…but most of all i love your words.

05 March 12th, 2009

twatson

@LaurenGrant Thank you. I like your addition of how physically small we all are. Good stuff.

@ky Thank you, seriously, thank you.

06 March 19th, 2009

dejvicka

i love sunsets. and this.

07 March 25th, 2009

aimeewenske

beautiful. what a lovely reminder through the photo and your words.

08 March 25th, 2009

twatson

@dejvicka, @cloverity Thank you.

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